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Friday, January 04, 2008

Happy New Year!


Hi readers! (all two of you) It's 2008. As usual, I have all sorts of Grand Plans for the new year, lots that I want to accomplish, acquire, redeem. But I only have one resolution (as opposed to my mongo list from last year, let's not talk about how that went....). I want to PRAY more. I realized that those wee hours of the morning when I'm alone and painting are perfect moments to pray, especially for my children. So I want to commit to praying for each of my kids and for my husband every morning. I feel like it might be a little more feasible to accomplish all that Other Stuff on my list if I'm praying about everything...don't you think?


So, I know I fell off the blogging bandwagon about halfway through 2007. I got in over my head with this painting business, and Balance was not on my list of Things I Acheived. I gave it a fighting try - in spurts - but really, I was just plain overwhelmed and I was doing a terrible job at just about everything except painting. What I did manage, however, was to get so sick and tired of being so busy and overwhelmed that I learned what my priorities were. The young wife (can I call myself young? ) in the Bible is commanded to make her home and family her priority. Ecclesiastes reminds us that there is a season for everything. It's not the season for me to spend every waking hour holed up in my basement dungeon, painting like a wild person, while my kids are upstairs tearing up the house and screaming at each other.


I streamlined my processes. I hired a couple people to help me manage my time more efficiently. I learned that assembly lines are great! I figured out shortcuts and learned to say "no" or "wait" more often. I stopped acting like a crazy eager beaver and continually seeking out more business when I had business coming out my ears. Now, I have a manageable amount of work on my plate. I can finish in the early a.m. and spend the rest of the day on my priorities. Being with my children. Cleaning. Cooking and baking. Exercising. Reading. And Praying.


Still, I'm only making the one resolution. I think everything will fall into place if I'm walking in the Spirit.


As for the kiddos, they finished off 2007 with a bang. Cole is walking, saying a handful of words, drumming, scribbling, eating with a spoon (or throwing it, depends on the day), going up and down stairs, depositing various objects in the toilet and continually locking himself in various rooms around the house, pointing at everything and making everyone laugh. Ashton is giggling, learning letters, numbers, shapes and colors in preschool, dressing himself ten times a day, going potty and drawing smiley faces. The more language he acquires, the funnier he gets. Every night at dinner he thanks God for the food and for his helicopter watch (a helicopter that fits on his wrist) and his pressure watch (a pretend blood pressure cuff that is on his wrist all the time). He's still afraid of EVERYTHING, but we're making headway in that department. Audrey is LOVING kindergarten and all the stimulation she gets (and desperately needs). She has a ton of friends (no surprise) and is wowing me with all her incredible artwork and creative ideas. She's writing a ton and starting to pick up the whole reading thing. Wesley is thriving in second grade - he has a fabulous, creative teacher and knows more about the Pilgrims than I EVER did. He also knows a bunch of other stuff and relishes the change to relay all his endless amounts of knowledge with anyone who will listen. I am so proud of my kids and how they are growing up. Of course, like any kids, they all have their moments that make me want to tear my hair out and throw it at them, but I wouldn't trade this crazy life for anything.

10 Comments:

Blogger Janet said...

So good to hear that you are slowing down...you have seemed so stressed lately. I hope that cutting back on your business and pumping up in the prayer department brings all that desire and more. Those kiddos will be gone before you know it...love it today.

7:47 AM  
Blogger Shannon said...

Wow. This is the balance that we've been praying for!

6:37 PM  
Blogger Patti said...

Ha! 3 comments...that means you have at least 3...count em, 3 readers!
Starting the day in the Word and in prayer is like starting the morning off over coffee with a good friend. It's sweet and lingers all day long.

10:45 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wahooo! Reader #4! You're movin up on the world, Sal. If only my sisters would share their blogs with me sooner! Ha ha. Anyway, glad to hear your priorities are more streamlined in 2008 and the rewards will be plentiful I'm sure. I miss you guys already, with exception to all of the chocolaty fingerprints I have been cleaning of my walls and furniture since you left. How did my Audrey do on the way home?

2:44 PM  
Blogger Sally said...

Audrey did okay! She mentioned how much she missed you a million times, but she didn't cry! Sorry about the fingerprints - they like to leave a mark! Literally!

3:16 PM  
Blogger cris said...

so do you every actually sleep? I think about getting up early in the morning to paint and write, or even have some tea by myself, but getting a little more sleep always wins and I can't get out of bed until I'm needed. What's your secret?

And I am glad you are slowing down. And for your words about priorities. That was a good reminder for me today.

Dang, girl, it has been too long since I've seen you.

9:41 PM  
Blogger Sally said...

Invite me to your house, Cris! I'm always looking for excuses to travel! :-)

4:48 AM  
Blogger Lisa said...

Happy New Year Sally!
Isn't it funny how New Year's resolutions tend to be all or nothing?? Glad you are scaling back. Prayer brings inner peace--eveen when the outside is pure craziness.
Glad the kids are doing so well.
It's always great to connect (even through cyberspace!!)
Lisa

6:07 AM  
Blogger cris said...

There is a forever open invitation to our house. You and the whole gang!
btw do you have my email? i can't see to find yours...

3:56 PM  
Blogger KLee said...

You have inspired me with your blog, Sally, so I've created my own. I love hearing your thoughts--in person or in cyberspace:) Seems the Lord is teaching us similar things--may He give us all wisdom as we make plans and walk with Him. It's Feb. now--how is the prayer coming? Mine seems to be dependent on how much sleep I get--the more I sleep, the more I can pray as I go about my day.
So, off for a nap!

10:14 AM  

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